Can I get bukkit onto my xenon server? *Dedicated server

I've followed all the steps in the newb friendly installation guide but to no avail have I gotten the mod onto my server. I tried putting it onto the server using filezilla, but it still wont work.
Can someone please skype with me and help me out? Don't worry, I am not an old man or even a young child. I'm 17 and a male.
My minecraft account is Unicorn_Kiid
My skype account is ChewyDuck
My steam account is Schwumper

Please contact me on this thread or even on skype. I really want to get this started on my server. Thank you.
--- merged: Jan 14, 2011 11:46 PM ---
Also, if it helps I can tell you that I have Teamviewer, so I am guessing if anyone would help me we would be using that.

 

go to http://www.xenonservers.com/cp/ login and click under mods and look for the plugin you want n install its simple ;D